The winner is always part of the answer.
The loser is always part of the problem.
The winner always has a plan.
The loser always has an excuse.
The winner says: let me do it for you.
The loser says: that’s not my job.
The winner sees an answer for every problem.
The loser sees a problem in every answer.
The winner keeps trying to solve the problem,
The loser gives up and walks away.
Something my Dad gave me that I’ve had hanging up in my bedroom at my parents house for awhile. Pretty good advice.